The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim offers a rich role-playing experience that allows players to forge meaningful relationships, including marriage. Yes, you can marry in Skyrim, provided you follow a few specific steps to express your intentions and prepare for the ceremony. Understanding how the game's marriage mechanic works can grant unique gameplay benefits and add deeper immersion to your journey across Tamriel.
Obtaining the Amulet of Mara and Expressing Interest
To begin the process of finding a partner, you must first speak with Maramal, a priest located at the Temple of Mara in Riften. Asking him about marriage lore allows you to purchase an Amulet of Mara for 200 gold coins. Equipping this necklace serves as a signal to eligible non-player characters that you are looking for a spouse.
Before an NPC accepts a proposal, you usually need to win their favor by completing a specific quest or favor for them. Once their relationship status improves, talking to them while wearing the amulet unlocks special dialogue options to express romantic interest. After both parties agree to wed, you must return to Riften to finalize the arrangements for the wedding ceremony.
Planning the Ceremony and Attending the Wedding
After informing Maramal of your impending marriage, he will set up the event at the Temple of Mara. The wedding is scheduled to take place between dawn and dusk on the following day. It is essential to arrive at the temple on time, as missing the window will anger your partner and force you to ask for a second chance.
When you enter the temple during the designated time, a cutscene triggers where you and your chosen partner walk down the aisle. Exchanging vows completes the quest, officially uniting the Dragonborn and their new spouse. Following the service, you can speak directly with your partner to choose where the two of you will establish your home.
Gameplay Perks and Benefits of Married Life
Marriage in Skyrim provides several practical advantages that aid you throughout your adventuring life. Resting in the same home as your spouse grants the Lover's Comfort bonus, boosting skill learning speed by 15% for eight hours. Additionally, asking your spouse to cook once per day yields a Home Cooked Meal, which temporarily enhances health, stamina, and magicka regeneration.
Spouses also set up a small merchant shop that generates a daily income of 100 gold coins. This passive income accumulates over time, allowing you to collect accumulated gold whenever you return home. Whether you settle down in a city house or a custom homestead, having a spouse creates a reliable home base that rewards your efforts.